“I’m old, so I have to get up and move my legs.” Returning to my seat on the Vancouver-bound airplane, the man sitting next to me, a man who wouldn’t need a fake beard to convince a small child he was Santa, explained. He’d gotten up also.
His admission makes me remember each time I’ve been warned. Hormone therapy has all kinds of side effects, blood clots being on the long list each medical professional- the oncologist, the pharmacist, the nurse who calls himself “The Man on The Breast Team” and giggles each time he says it, like he doesn’t say it every time. The OR nurse who helped me put on the surgical stockings advised me to keep the impossibly tight thigh highs, “For airplanes. Because you’re at high risk. And these are expensive.”
Medically induced aging, that’s what I’ve got. Not the kind of aging you can see right out- not the kind that causes Santa-hair or the kind that causes confusion about how to use social media or personal technologies.
Just the kind that is simultaneously fussed over and ignored.
The kind that involves staring at death. The kind that involves making decisions about shutting down ovaries, for fear of what they produce. The kind that involves wandering through cancerland.
Just the kind that is simultaneously fussed over and ignored.
There’s a new hormone therapy. I’m switching to it. There’s not one right way. No one knows what the right way is, if there is one. But a study came out recently, called the SOFT Trial. The results were published, and the cancer agency made some decisions, about whether they will fund this new, recommended treatment.
They will not.
That’s because there’s not very many patients for whom it would make a difference. Put another way, the fact that it matters a whole lot for a few bodies, and that it doesn’t matter for the majority of bodies isn’t cost effective. The policy seems to scream to me, your body doesn’t matter enough.
Because for me, it will matter. For me, the treatment recommended by the SOFT trial suggests a 8-9% five year survival increase.
That means that if we were one hundred pre-menopausal patients, and if all one hundred of us had grade 3 cancers in our breasts, and if all one hundred of us were under thirty-five, eight or nine less of us would die. EIGHT OR NINE WHO WOULD HAVE DIED, WOULD LIVE. EIGHT, OR NINE. We don’t know which eight or nine. Some will still die. But eight or nine who would have died, would live old enough to go into menopause naturally. Eight or nine who would have died, would live long enough to grow wrinkles in their foreheads and babies in their bellies and careers on the horizon.
The problem is, the standard of care is not built for me. It’s built for a middle aged woman, with a low or medium grade cancer, who has already gone through menopause. And so when the cancer agency decides what kind of treatments to make standard, they don’t factor us in, even if we are one hundred and eight or nine of us would have lived with the new treatment.
And so I will pay. Because there are not enough of me. Because there are not enough of me to make this treatment financially responsible. What does it mean to be body, a body the state decides not to care for, because it isn’t financially responsible?
Certainly, it means my bank account will sink lower still, as I try to make ends meet on an adjunct professor’s meager wages (that is a whole different blog post). It means I will commiserate with my cancer buddies, about whether the cost is worth it to our lives. It means some of us will not be able to afford to switch to a therapy that means our chances at being alive five years out from our diagnoses jumps from from 65% to 75%. Can you believe it?
It feels like the world is eating its young. It feels odd that folks aren’t out protesting. It feels like our bodies don’t matter. They certainly didn’t find their way into mattering enough as the policy was voted on, the decision made. We weren’t even there to raise our hands. They forgot to tell us when the meeting us. And we got eaten, swallowed whole, written right out of medical policy, our best interests cast aside for financial responsibility, because the older masses matter more. Because someone else knew different, and someone else counted, but they didn’t count our heartache, they didn’t measure our dreams, they didn’t account for our desire to live.
So don’t tell me your so and so had cancer and everything was covered. It’s not true in the US and it’s not true in Canada. No, not even in Canada. And besides, stop being that person who loves to position themselves as close to the cancer, as in the know. You’re not in the know, you’re out of it and your “stories” are not helpful. In Canada, I’ve paid for shots to stop the nausea and treatments to preserve fertility and pain medication post-surgery. Yes, I’m plenty aware I’ve been fed cancer treatment on a silver spoon compared to what I’d have gotten living in the country of my citizenship- which, as a graduate student would have likely included (and as an adjunct professor would certainly have included) piecing together chemotherapy in non-profit clinics, addicted to the drug the nurses call the red devil and unsure about how I’d get the next fix my oncologist insisted on. That’s a real thing that happens. But I’m also absolutely convinced, and if you disagree tell someone else because I have zero interest in arguing and I’m not going to entertain your logic unless you agree with me because anything else feels viscerally violent, that everyone walking this planet deserves completely free access to the best medical treatment around.
And you know what else everyone deserves? To be free of disease born of the environmental disaster that we have created, to be free of hormones that stave off what should be a normal substance in the body, to be free of needing, of requiring medically induced aging that can’t be seen, the kind of aging that rubs most deeply on the soul and makes the future blurry.
So let me just go pay for my eight or nine percent five-year survival rate increase. And if that’s too real for you, I agree, it’s effing morbid. So is wondering if the kink in your calf is a blood clot from your hormone therapy. So is wondering if you should explain to Santa’s body double why you need to get up and roam the airplane as much- maybe more?- than he does, even though he’s decades older. So is deciding an eight or nine percent survival increase for cancer patients who’ve barely had their ten year high school reunions isn’t financially responsible. So what are you gonna do about it?